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I love living in Colombia’s capital, Bogotá. A truly international city, it feels quite different than Greenville, SC - mainly due to the estimated nine million residents. I live in a house in the north of the city, which is the safest part of Bogota. It is also close to ECA and near most of the school’s faculty. Everyday I leave my comfortable home and as soon as I close the door behind me, I brace myself for the noise of cars, buses, transmilenios, crowded streets, people asking me to buy things every ten steps,beggars asking for money, people shouting for me to get on their bus,and the mad rush of the city at 6:15am. I pass many street vendors selling fresh bread, arepas, or black coffee. I dodge trash and breathe in tons of bus fumes. I hold my purse and book bag tight and try to look like I have lived here for years. I reach my street where I wait for the teacher van to pick me up (or sometimes find it waiting on me) then we zoom in and out of traffic until we reach ECA all before 7:00am.
Today is my favorite day of the week. Everyday the staff has a meeting that starts at 7:15. This is nice, because at the end of the day all you have to do is finish your work and leave school. Wednesdays we worship. No one mentions paperwork that is due or tomorrow's modified schedule, we just stop and worship for thirty minutes before we start our day. We sing in Spanish and English. Our staff has amazing musicians, so we have a full band and we sing loud enough for everyone entering school grounds to hear. Some of the high school students join us and you can hear the elementary kids laughing and playing outside the auditorium between songs. It definately sets a different tone for the day and I am always reminded of my purpose at ECA and for living in Bogota. We stop worshipping right before the bell rings and all the teachers rush back to their classrooms, weaving in and out of loud, laughing students. The bell rings and 23 beautiful children enter my room. I get a hug and kiss from each one and a "Good Morning, Miss. Parrish I have missing you or I love you." Sometimes their English mistakes are so cute I can't correct them. After the sweet greetings I start rushing them to unpack and get in their seats so we can start our day. We pray, we sing, we learn, we eat, we play for 7 hours. Then I gladly send them on their way home, because 23 kindergartners wear me out. The best part is that each day I get to share truth, talk about how Great our God is, and shape their character. I quicly go to my spanish class, finish up work in my classroom, and then get on the same teacher van to go home.
I had a very different picture in mind of what I would be doing when I first moved here. I thought I would be working with poor kids, street kids, kids who hadn't heard the gospel before. I was wrong. I get to do that some on our ministry outreaches, but with most of my time I work with students from very wealthy families, many of the families in full-time ministry. After the first quarter, when I had all my parent teacher conferences, I was blown away at the amazing ministries that they are involved in. I have one mom who grew up here as a missionary kid. Her dad was kidnapped by the FARC when she was very young. After he was released he started Christ for Colombia, a huge ministry that reaches out to thousands and thousands. She married a Colombian man who works for Voice of the Martyrs here in Bogota. One couple has a children's ministry with over three thousand children and young adults. They take their students on mission trips to the US every year to reach the Latino community. Pastors, couples planting churches in small cities outside of Bogota, couples reaching the poorest parts of the city. My parents are amazing. Over and over they thanked me for coming here and investing in their children's lives. They invite me to be a part of what they are doing and spend time with their families. Even though it isn't what I imagined, I think it is better, because I get to be another person in their child's life that is teaching them what it means to live for Christ and be aware of world around them. I get to partner with their parents to prepare them to reach the poor, the people living on the streets, and the people who have never heard truth before. Discipleship.
Our school has stopped ministry outreaches for the month of December to give students a break and the people who spend so much time planning all our outreaches. Each grade is collecting items that their ministry is in need of and those will be delivered before Christmas. Before our break started, many outreaches occured. The past trips to the Teenage Pregnancy home were wonderful. One time we did a beauty/spa day and gave manicures/pedicures and did make-up to give the moms a treat. Another time we just shared testimonies that were so encouraging to me, God can change people so much. I love to watch the middle school and high school girls in action there. They beleive the young moms are heros for not having abortions and that is exactly how they treat them. There is no judgement, only love, and it is neat to watch their relationships develop and deepen with girls that they dont have much in common with. God has surprised me with giving me a desire to spend more time with the high school students. This is odd because I usually find high schoolers extremely annoying and self-centered (which reminds me of exactly who I was in highschool, but worse... it wasn't pretty). There are three girls (one of them I disciple) that I have been very intentional about spending time with and trying to plan things outside of school to get to know them better. All of the high school students amaze me though. Last week they ate on less than a dollar a day for World Hunger Week. They waited to eat breakfast at school and at lunch they cooked very cheap meals together. They went home with a snack for dinner, very different from their usual meals. They did it with barely any complaining and grew so much. I don't know if God is changing my heart or these high school students somehow escaped that annoying stage that all teenagers seem to experiance, but I look forward to seeing how God will use this new interest in my life down the road.
Life has been busy and I have seen God moving a ton. I am so thankful to be here and I was reminded of that last week during Thanksgiving. I praised God for everyone who has encouraged me, supported me and prayed for me. For all the friends and family who stop to think about me and make it a point to keep in touch so I don't feel so homesick. I hope you all had a wonderful time with your families and praising God for all your blessings. My first Thanksgiving away from home was a little bit sad, but not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. I cooked a big meal that I think would have made my Grandma proud for my roomates and friends the weekend before. We didn't have turkey because it is too exspensive here, but other than that it was pretty authentic. On Thursday morning at 3am, I jumped in a jeep with another teacher from school and one of her friends named, Edgar, that I have never met before. They took me to the second largest city in Colombia, Medellin. It was warm and beautiful. It used to be one of the most dangerous cities in the world (during Pablo Escobar's reign in Colombia) but has changed a ton in the past twenty years. We still had to be careful, but we felt safe and had the best time. We drove most of the day on Thursday and when we got to our apartment Edgar bought us turkey sandwhich meat and we had a little celebration. I love any chance to get out of Bogota to see how beautiful this country is. We explored and it was fun to get to know Giselle better and make a new friend. Edgar is amazing because he started his own ministry in the south part of Bogota just a few years after he became a beleiver. It is for street kids and it is growing and growing. I am going to check it out soon.
To everyone who played a part in making my 27th birthday at the beginning of the month the best birthday ever, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! I celebrated all week long with my students, families from school and friends. I felt so loved and appreciated the emails, cards and presents that were sent that week. I can't wait to see everyone in 2 and 1/2 weeks to celebrate Christmas!
Thursday, October 21, 2010
This is Bogota, Colombia!
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
You have given me more than I could ever have wanted
Last week was probably my hardest week since being here. Found out on Tuesday evening that one of my closest childhood friends had been killed in a car accident. She has two little girls and a wonderful husband. She was a beautiful friend, daughter, mother and wife. She was a second grade teacher. Her life had meaning and she loved so many. I have a hundred memories of growing up with her and our two older brothers. I spent a good chunk of my childhood with her family. Going on beach trips, playing softball, watching our big brothers play baseball, being mistaken for sisters, getting into trouble, a million sleepovers, and getting talked into going on a sled that was attached to a four wheeler( our older brothers were evil), only to end up crashing into a mailbox and having a huge dent in my leg for the rest of my life. I wanted to come back home so bad and attend the funeral with my brother, hug her family, cry with them, and spend time with people who loved her and knew how amazing she was. I didn't get to go home though and I am at peace with that. I heard it was a beautiful service. Her life was celebrated and God recieved much glory. While processing all of this, God showed me what a wonderful community He has placed around me. I went to work on Wednesday with swollen eyes and could not stop crying or get myself together all day. I would be fine and someone would look at me to ask if I was okay and I would just bust out crying again. Over and over, people stopped to pray with me, prayed for Lisa's family and to just hug me. There is one lady at school that I admire very much. Her name is Sol and she is the school nurse. We can't communicate a ton, but when we try I know she loves me and she knows I love her. She saw me and immediately pulled me into a staff bathroom. She asked me in her little bit of English, "what hurts?" In my little bit of Spanish, I tried to tell her my friend had passed away. She just held me and cried with me. Then she said, " I like pray." "Jesus help. Jesus, Your presence, we need, Holy Spirit help, Marianne's friend please help, her family needs you Jesus." Over and over she just called on Jesus in her broken English and it was probably the sweetest experiance I have had since I have been here. People here are so loving. Anytime I stop and question why I am here in Colombia, whether Im lost on the transmileno for an hour, annoyed that I can't communicate like I want to, or homesick, God shows me all the ways He has blessed me and I stop doubting my purpose here immediately. I want to become one of those people who stop and pray for people at anytime, it means so much when you are hurting. Please pray for Lisa's two little girls and her family if you think of it.
More quick updates:
I have started teaching 3 English classes a week outside of school. I was a little bit worried it would be too much at first, but it has turned out to be only a blessing. I love my adult students! We laugh and laugh during our 2 hour classes. It is so much fun that I can't believe I get paid for it. I make them do crazy things like act out commercials or pretend to discuss art while walking through a museum. They get really into the lessons and it makes teaching so enjoyable. It is another great oppurtunity to build relationships with the beautiful people of Colombia. They teach me so much about the culture and language too.
The student that I am discipling, Jannett, is simply amazing. l love my time with her and feel like our relationship has grown a ton in the past few weeks. She tells me everything that is going on in her 10th grade world. I tell her I will beat up all the mean boys and she tells me thats not very Christlike. Highschool is tough, I had forgotten. We have had some neat times studying God's Word, praying together, talking and laughing. This is one of my favorite oppurtunities her. God has used so many women to pour into my life and disciple me over the past years. It is cool to be on the other side of the process of life change.
One of my fellow teachers turned into Santa Claus this past week and brought back two packages from the states for me. Two of my best friends and my sister compiled a whole suitcase of my favorite things. I asked Jamie and Caroline for a lint roller and dove chocolate. They sent me a ton of school supplies, 3 new outfits, stationary, organic products, ACV, 2 lint rollers, a big bag of chocolate and all sorts of things I didn't even know I wanted or needed. My sister sent my favorite coffee, more chocolates, and lots of other treats. Thank you, I felt so loved!
-I got to go on a wonderful weekend getaway to a town called San Gil with three other teachers. Colombia is gorgeous! We enjoyed God's creation and found our adventurous side through white water rafting and rappelling. We stayed in a cool hostel that was cheap and full of the most fun backpackers from around the world. We went exploring in a town called Barichara that was breathtaking and endured some crazy long bus rides. We gave God lots of praise for protection and such a refreshing trip. It made Bogota's rain and cold weather seem a little bit dreary upon returning, but only for a minute. I love this place.
-My prayer partner, Claire, was reunited with her biological family last week. She was adopted from Medellin, Colombia when she was 1 years old and brought the the states. She lived in California and Chicago her whole life. She came to teach here in Bogota this year and immediately started trying to find her birth mom in Medellin. After finding our her mom died 7 years ago (that was really hard), she found her Grandma, 2 Aunts, 2 brothers and 3 nieces!!! She had the best week eating huge plates of food her Grandmother cooked, hugging and crying with her family, and hearing stories about her mom. Huge praise! God is good!
Thanks for being a part of this journey with me and for keeping up with my life in Bogota. Thank you 100 times for your prayers and support. I come home in two months for Christmas and can't wait to see everyone!
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Dia de Amor y Amistad
My students at school have been great. Most days they are great, some they are just crazy. We made apple pies while we studied the letter a this week and we also went on our first field trip which was hilarious. We are still studying living things and are learning about animals and how God provides for them so they can survive. So we went to this really cool restaurant down the street from our school that has horses, sheep, llamas and goats. They taught us all about what the animals need and how they take care of the them. When we were leaving the school there was no gaurd at the gate so we waited ten minutes before we could actually get going. There had been torrential downpoors the day before and the street we needed to walk on with no cars was flooded. So we made the kids hike through this tall grass and carried them over the water. All of us were covered in mud. Colombians do not think it is funny for your shoes to be dirty, so I was super stressed out that parents were going to be mad. The presentation was great and the animals were really fun, but on our way back we had to walk on a busy street and were locked out of school again. We will always plan our trips around the gaurds lunchbreaks for here on out. They were all really well behaved on this trip, despite the chaos so I was so proud of them. The pictures are up top even though I tried for twenty minutes to get them to post here.
I have started teaching English classes on Saturday to six adults, it is super cool. All my students are really fun and we have the best discussions. I also get paid for this and am saving up for a cool trip to take in October for our break. It is so refreshing to get to teach big people after a week with 23 little ones. I do have to miss out on some of the school's outreaches, but I am thankful for this oppurtunity. I take 3 free Spanish classes a week, two of them are 0ne-on-one with an amazing teacher named Jairo. He makes class so fun and I am learning a lot. I have also started discipling a beautiful 10th grader named Jannett. I love her so much and we have already had some really neat meetings. We are going through this book called, The Air I Breathe, by Loui Giglio and I have been learning a lot through it as well. More to come on her later.
Families have continued to bless me over and over. One mom took me home with her and my student, Isabel, last week. She took me grocery shopping and taught me to say all the fruits in vegetables in Spanish. She bought me a ton of fruits that I never tried before and then took me to her house and taught me to make some amazing dishes that I can't wait to try out on my family at Christmas. Another family took me to church with them two weekends ago and then outside of Bogota for a wonderful lunch and dessert in Sopo. The food was a amazing and the company even better. They only let me speak in Spanish and I tried lots of new foods. The best part was that I found out my student' grandparents (the pastors of the church I attended that day) were the first people to bring Campus Crusade for Christ to Colombia. They started it on college campuses in the three biggest cities in Colombia: Bogota, Medillin, and Cali. When I told them that I became a believer in college through CCC we all teared up a little bit. Josue's grandpa went to the same seminary as Bill Bright, has met him and his wife, and spoke to them on the phone many times. It was such a blessing to meet people here who are so passionate about that ministry and to hear about how God is using them in such big ways. Josue's dad is a pastor on one of the main college campuses here in Bogota and so is his Uncle. I have been attending a really neat small group with them on Tuesday nights for college students and young professionals. It is incredible and I have met some really neat people.
Life in Bogota has gotten incredibly busy lately but I am loving it. Despite being homesick and missing all my friends and family sometimes, I am so thankful to be here. There is still lots of time for fun too. ECA took all the teachers on a retreat three hours away from Bogota last weekend. It was a gorgeous place. We did have lots of meetings but plenty of time for fun too. We did lots of swimming in the pool and river, enjoyed the lovely scenary and had a fun time growing relationships within all the ECA staff. This is the first time my aide, Gloria, and I have hung out outside of school. She taught me how to play this crazy ping pong game with about 15 people. You have to run around the table and each player hits the ball one time until someone misses up. It was like ping pong on crack but so fun.
Thank you for keeping in touch and for praying for me. I love you all!
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Whatever is Lovely
There is no one like our God
Dios la bendiga!
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Hillsong comes to Bogota!
1.I can't get over how wonderful my first day of school was.
2.My mom and sister sent me a package through a friend coming to Bogota, full of school supplies and some things I wish I had packed.
3.My co-workers have the most beautiful hearts. They love to serve the families at ECA and are involved in the most awesome ministries.
4. The school librarian putt Rosetta Stone on my computer for free!
5.God provided my roomates and I with a gorgeous home. Missionaries from Germany had to go back home for a year and are letting us rent it for almost nothing. Completely furnished and has a full-time gaurd right outside our door 24 hrs a day.
6. I am learning to be a big city girl and can take buses, the transmileno, and hail taxis. God has taken care of so many fears I had about living here.
7. God is growing my love for Colombia everyday.
8. There are tons of oppurtunities to minister to our surrounding community and tons of passionate people to serve with.
Things that BLOW my mind about Colombia:
1. You don't have to refrigerate milk, eggs, or butter. You really don't have to refrigerate anything, or at least people choose not to.
2. The altitude not only makes you feel out of shape when doing any strenuous activity, it GREATLY affects your baking. ( I made two birthday cakes for my fellow teachers last week and it was an epic failure. My friends still ate them because they love me, but I wouldn't waste the calories).
3. It takes 3 days to line dry your clothes. I will never wash my hoodie again.
4. It can take 30 minutes to hail a taxi on national holidays.
5. Instead of snow days, Bogota has traffic days. We actually cancel school due to the amount of traffic sometimes.
6.Bus drivers like to take off with half your body hanging out the door.
7. People are SOOOO generous.
8. My students are SOOOO cute.
9. People drink unreal amounts of coffee that is intensely strong.
10. The food is amazing. The land for carb-lovers.
11. The immense love for futbol!
12.How beautiful it is to pray/worship in spanish and english.
13. Children love their parents so much. Especially adult children, families are very close.
14. Earthquakes aren't even that scary. At least not the tremors we felt at school last week. (all the Colombians ran out of the buildings as the gringos watched everything on their desks shaking in bewilderment).
Prayer Needs:
1.That I will have a successful start to the school year, strong relationships with families and students.
2. That I will have a strong relationship with the high school student that I get to disciple and that I will have plenty of time to invest in her life.
3. That God will let me get involved and be a blessing to one of the many ministries that flows out of ECA. I am hoping to help with a teenage pregnancy home.
4. Safety and health.
5. Learning language and culture quickly.
6. That I will do well teaching an english institute for families of ECA.
7. My Colombian mom, Gladys, is having surgery on Wednesday.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Happy First Day of School, Happy Inauguration Day, & Batalla de Boyaca
Colombia has a new president as of today. We didn't know what to expect as far as riots or protests, but it seemed like a very peaceful day. One of the spanish teachers at ECA gave us a neat history lesson that prepared us for the upcoming inauguration last week. It went back all the way to the Spanish invasion and massacre, Simon Bolivar gaining independence, and the development of the gurriella army and paramilitary. It was very interesting and I can't wait to learn more. Colombia has had so much violence in the past and it still affects people today even though this country is changing for the better every year. Everyone has a family member that has been affected by FARC. Everyone has to deal with the poverty and crime that is still prominent. I have been so confused as to why people look so serious and tough out on the streets but are so warm and loving when you visit their home. Our Spanish teacher told us that Colombians are so proud of their country but have been born with a "no one is going to take anything from me" mentality. It put lots of things into perspective. Colombia's past president, Alvaro Uribe, did so much for this country. He fought against FARC and drug cartels and made huge progress. His successor, Juan Manuel Santos, will continue to do the same and help with the high unemployment rate. Santos studied during college in Kansas, Harvard and London. He was also the Minister of Defense during Uribe's presidency. Colombia has one of the highest populations of displaced people in the world and is still considered a third world country. It is a beautiful country full of hope and a need for peace and love. Thankful to be here.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Made it!
Today was my first day at El Camino Academy. We were picked up at 7:15 and taken to school. This week is orientation for new teachers. When you arrive on campus you have a peaceful feeling and you can tell everyone loves the school very much. It is a beautiful campus. A very old section and then a huge new building that holds almost all the classrooms. My classroom was awesome, I can't wait to get in there and make it my own. Beth Afanador, the director of ECA, gave us a tour and went through the schools mission and vision with us. I love the heart of ECA. Their motto is "Training for Life" and there school verse is Deuteronomy 6:5-7. It is a multi-cultural and multi-denomenational school. Everyone agrees on certain core truths of The Bible, but there are many different beleifs on prosperity, salvation, and spiritual gifts. Colombian churches tend to me charismatic. I think this will be a very interesting setting to teach in and will cause me to grow in many ways. I loved getting to know the other teachers and hearing their stories. There are two other southerners, newlyweds from Tennessee. We spent the morning at school and the afternoon getting our cedulas. It is like an ID card that is very important in Colombia. Social Security card meets license meets birth certificate. You have to have it for everything apparently. Had to have my finger pricked so they could know what bloodtype I am. That was not enjoyable. I was constantly praising God that I get to be in full-time ministry again while serving at ECA. There are a great deal of ministries pouring out of the school. Each grade has two or three different projects they work on throughout the year and team up with missionaries out in the community. I can't wait to see all the good things that go on at that school and be a part of as much as I can. I look forward to getting to know the other teachers and staff more this week and preparing for my 22 kindergarteners in 2 weeks. I did feel very overwhelmed today while learning about how the school works and all the things needed to be done before the students arrive. I hope once I get in my classroom and start planning I will feel more at ease. I will write again soon and post some pictures of the school campus. Skype me whenever you can. I spoke with my sister and nephews tonight, my friend Natalie and my friend named Caroline. It was so fun and they all got to meet my Colombian family and friends. Thank you for all your prayers, encouragement and support. Buenos Noches!
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Saturday, July 17, 2010
"Couldn't wait to get going, but wasn't quite ready to leave"
"In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good works and praise your father in heaven." Matthew 5:16
I have been in awe of God and his love for me, especially during the last few weeks. He has used my family and friends over and over again to make me feel encouraged, supported and worthy of going to Bogota. Through beautiful handwritten cards, conversations, and prayers prayed over me I have felt God's constant affirmation and truth poured out. He has provided a group of financial supporters that has given me more than enough to cover my living and travel expenses for the 2010-2011 school year. I have plane tickets and a visa. I have met some of the staff at El Camino Academy and was again overwhelmed that I would get to be surrounded by such amazing people and get to be a part of their work in Colombia. I have been able to spend quality time with all of my family and friends that I love so much. I witnessed my nephew's adoption be finalized and was overjoyed that I was able to be present during that unforgettable moment. I stood beside my best friend while she married her love. I have picked peaches with my grandpa. I was the guest of honor at the most charming, lovely, fun surprise party thrown by the greatest people in the world. I have spent the most relaxing, peaceful, fun week at Lake Hartwell with my sweet family. As soon as I start packing, I will be ready to go. I have no doubt that I will miss home so much sometimes that it will be almost unbearable. Pray for me about that and that I would be given passion and purpose while in Bogota! I am going to post pictures of my party, the lake vacation, and the adoption day soon. If anyone can help me figure out how to get an accent over the a in Bogota on my title, a song playlist on here, and how to make a picture collage I would love you forever and ever.